Ladies- have you heard of “ARE WE DATING THE SAME GUY?” Last year I was DUPED by a man who presented to be everything I ever wanted, HOWEVER, I let him into my life without making him earn his way in. I didn’t ask enough questions when his stories didn’t line up. I didn’t give him push back when he started to slowly show controlling behavior. I didn’t look deep under the covers because I wanted love. I wanted to FEEL loved and my goodness did he make me FEEL all of the FEELS. Fast forward 4 week